special for a girl, lady, woman :)

salamunalaik.

so, i'm going to share something that i learn about menstrual cycle.
yes, menstrual cycle. :3

in my years of schooling, many version of menstrual cycle i've heard. ade yang cakap fifteen days paling banyak, ada yang cakap lepas fifteen days to ade lagi istihadah, ade jugak yang cakap istihadah ni takde in Islam. huh? takde?.

so, ape conclusion yang sebenarnya?

since my husband is learning more and more about Islam, which is about fadhail *kelebihan amal* and masail *ilmu hukum-hakam*, Alhamdulillah, I have someone that i can refer to.

so, one day, we have a chat about this problem *menstrual thing* he asked me about darah fatrah.

first thing in my mind? ape bende tuh? cakap nak bincang pasal period. kenapa pula dengan darah fatrah?

tak tahu tanye kan? so, i tanye my husband.. 'ape tuh?'

and he asked me back, 'eh, takan ta tahu?'

errrkk??!!
ah sudahh... ape aku nak jawab ni.. segannyaaa..

okay. fullstop sampai situ. apa yang jadi lepas tu, i pergi belajar pasal period ni. shame thing bila my husband asked me about something that always happen  *period* tapi, i tak tahu ape2. yang i tahu, sampai 15 hari, and, kalau lebih istihadhah. Hurm..

So paling umum yang i can tell you girls, paling simple yang dianggap darah haid bagi imam syafie is --> 24jam. And yang paling banyak ialah 15 hari. Lebih daripada itu adalah istihadhah. Okay?

If nak tau deeper than what can i tell you, kene belajar la :) or nanti i update lagi sikit sekadar perkongsian. Wallahualam. 

 

a better me

salamunalaik :)

so, last last day, i've met Salikiyah Idris. Alhamdulillah, she is still the same. except, the fact that she is getting taller. hehe. thanks, kiyah.

now, i am struggling with myself. trying to put all the strength back together. what do you expect from a person that having a long-distance relationship. plus, the relationship is not the 'boyfriend&girlfriend' relationship but, it is husband&wife. all that i can do is, pray to Allah. Because Allah is the one can do anything with KUNFAYAKUN.

what did i realize now, it's not me the only one that having problem(s). it will come to us, with or without our expectation. someday, we will have a dozen of problems in our pocket and we don't ever know how to solve them. but, the one who remember where did the problems come from will find the one who give the problem. Yes, Allah the Almighty.
 
what i said here, is not for you, but for myself. to make me, a better me.